I still have months to go before the trip to Aruba and the wedding, but it's all I can think about. I can hardly sleep at night because I'm so excited. How do you deal with the anticipation of an upcoming trip?
Well you really have two major events coming up with the trip and a wedding whilst on Aruba so I can imagine your excitement (and stress level) is pretty high. I tend to make a few lists and pack or shop for holiday items on a weekly basis as the vacation approaches. This satisfies me to some extent. Good luck.
That's gotta be tough. I get worked up a few months before a regular vacation, but to throw the excitement of a wedding into the mix...phew. Well, Christmas is coming up. You could try to distract yourself with Christmas shopping. And also do what Shanna said and go shopping for one thing a week for the trip. Even if it's something small, like flip flops, you'll feel like you're getting closer to your big day.
I would suggest to never be anxious over all things. As long as you have packed all your things that you will be needing on your wedding and on your vacation, everything will turn just fine. When is your wedding?
I am also a worrier type especially about travelling or going to a vacation. I sometimes entertain thoughts like what if it happens? or what if the weather will not be good? but somehow when the day comes, i remain to be calm. But i understand in your case because you're to be wed. Its the most unforgettable moment of your life. But be positive, as long as you fix all the details then there's nothing to be worried of.